Engaging Successfully with Parents

Dealing With Parents and Difficult Discussions

Engaging Successfully with Parents

School Staff and Management often have difficult conversations with parents.  We want to make those conversations more productive and less stressful.   Whether offering advice about behaviour management in the home, or about safeguarding issues which have come to light, or last-ditch efforts to help a child to settle into school and engage with learning, there are moments where experience counts and skills matter.   This course has been crafted in cooperation with school staff to explore concrete methods of opening sensitive conversations, deal with verbal intimidation or heightened tension, lay the ground for persuasive discussions and to make sure that parents feel listened to, even in the most difficult of circumstances.

On our Engaging Successfully with Parents course we work with your staff on:

Communication Values:  what values shall we uphold and protect as we have these difficult conversations?

Emotional Equilibrium:  how to get ready for the interaction and stay responsive (not reactive) during difficult moments

Initial Contact:  how to open a conversation in a way which is non-escalatory

When things turn sour:  how to stay on-track and not get caught up in a tangle of insinuation, blaming or naming

Their turn:  how to ensure that the parent(s) feel that you are listening and taking their point of view into consideration

Your turn:  how to interrupt in the most positive way possible and make progress

Persuasion:  how to use a step-by-step process of gaining their voluntary collaboration, cooperation or compliance

When Words Aren’t Working:  for those situations when you may need to prioritise safety over resolution

To see an example of how we run this type of course (with lots of practice), please watch this video:

 

Engaging Successfully with Parents

Learning Outcomes We teach your staff how to “Treat People with Dignity by Showing them Respect” and how to “Generate Voluntary Collaboration, Cooperation or Compliance” when they deal with your parents, each other and the children.

10 Concepts for Conflict Success Dealing With Parents:

Your staff will explore and practice the following concepts:
 
✔ Be Alert & Decisive / Respond, Don’t React – How to maintain awareness, control distance and positioning to keep everyone safe
✔ Five Approaches – How to show people respect in order to maintain their dignity and gain their cooperation
✔ Showtime Mindset – How to develop and maintain your professional detachment in conflict situations
✔ Universal Greeting – How to present the best possible initial contact, fostering non-escalation reducing the need for de-escalation.
✔ Beyond Active Listening – How to see through eyes of the other person in order to find out how to manage them
✔ Redirection – How to manage questions, anger, and abusive language
✔ Persuasion Sequence – How to generate voluntary compliance, cooperation, and compliance
✔ When Words Alone Fail – When and how to take appropriate action when words alone fail
✔ Bystander Mobilization – How to create a social contract that is incompatible with violence
✔ Review & Report – How to debrief incidents to improve future performance and explain your response

 

 

Conflict Success Dealing With Parents

Training for Your Team at Your School

This conflict management training course “Success with Parents” is suitable for front-line staff who are in regular contact with parents and carers of your pupils who may become frustrated, upset or aggressive during meetings or interactions with your team.  This training focusses on verbal and non-verbal conflict communications used to manage and de-escalate aggression and distress effectively.

When: Half-Day AM or PM or Full-Day sessions on a date scheduled for your convenience

Who:  up to 16 staff are led by Gerard O’Dea, “Verbal Defense and Influence” European Adviser

What Roles? Any public-facing role or contact-professional within your organisation who has responsibility for interacting with, influence, persuading or de-escalating the parents or carers of your pupils will benefit from training to help them to create a safe, effective and secure environment in your workplace.

Where:  At a venue of your choice, or at your school.

How:  Our trainers deliver this Conflict Success Dealing With Parents course using a mix of lecture/presentation, Q&A, physical practice and scenario rehearsal using an “Emotionally Safe, Performance-driven Training Environment”

Why Choose this Course?

 Matched to your Conflict and Communication Skills needs

 Led by Professional Conflict Communication Skills Trainers

 Values Dignity and Respect as part of a Behaviour Support approach

 Safeguards Client rights in conflict situations

 Offers Staff Practical Options using Templates for Conflict Communications

 Value for Your Conflict Management Investment

Other similar courses:

Behaviour Management

SEND Training for Special Educational Needs and Disability

Conflict Management

 

 

Conflict Success Dealing With Parents

  • The training course from Dynamis fulfilled or exceeded expectations 98.1% 98.1%
  • Our instructor from Dynamis had a very good or excellent level of knowledge and competence 97.4% 97.4%
  • The theory and knowledge components helped me professionally 99.6% 99.6%
  • The techniques and tactics were appropriate to real scenarios in our work 97.3% 97.3%
  • Our Dynamis trainer observed good Health and Safety practices - the training was safe 99.4% 99.4%
  • The Dynamis training course was of the right duration to gain the skills and knowledge I needed 89.9% 89.9%

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“The Dynamis Engaging Successfully with Parents course delivered exactly what we asked for – practical strategies we can use with confidence. I thought it was a very well organised and structured session that met the needs well of a wide range of people at different stages in their careers. Thank you.”

 
 
Lisa C.

Deputy Head Teacher, Great Totham Primary School